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Disabled Women

Disability Awareness in Action
Resource Kit No. 6

Published by Disability Awareness in Action © 1996, All rights reserved
11 Belgrave Road, London SWIV IRB, United Kingdom
ISBN 1 892037 35 3

This publication is available in English, French and Spanish, in ordinary and large print, on audio-tape, in ASCII on computer disk, and in English braille

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Contents

Acknowledgements

Introduction

Status of Disabled Women

Strategies for Change

Action for Change

Resources

Contacts



"My main objective is to be an effectively contributing member of the community at large and thus contribute to the development of my country. The problem is the negative attitude in society towards the active participation of disabled people in community development I have to counter the belief that a disabled person is an object of pity who always needs assistance from somebody else. This problem is compounded by the fact that I am a woman. Being a disabled woman is a double disadvantage in my community." Gloria.


Acknowledgements

Disability Awareness in Action would like to thank Theresia Degener, Anneli Joneken and Dinah Radtke for their solidarity and expertise.

We would also like to record our thanks to all the disabled women whose experiences and achievements inspire this publication.

As always with our publications, we are indebted to the thousands of disabled people we have met and corresponded with worldwide.


People Don’t See Me
by Estella Jossum

People don’t see me
They think I’m useless
Say any word they want.
Don’t I think as they do?
I need to be recognised!

If I walk down the street
They say: "There’s a cripple!"
If I handle my crutches
They move away quickly
As though a plane’s taking off.

Don’t do anything for me!
I need to be on my own.

If I go for work
They say, "No - give her this special, light job."
But "special" means "discrimination".

I need to express my rights
To say what I want.
And remember
My choice is not a mistake.
Don’t be shy for me. Let me be shy for myself.
Let me speak for myself.



Introduction

There is much talk of the death of feminism - that the war has been won and that there are few, if any, battles left to fight. Yet the media continue to stir up conflict between men and women, rather than focusing on the negative impact of gender discrimination. Similarly, disabled people are seen as at war with their bodies, desperate for cures and care. The serious issues which really limit disabled people’s lives - marginalisation, abuse and poverty - are ignored.

From our own experiences and from the 1993 United Nations Report on Human Rights and Disability we know that the human rights of disabled people are violated all over the world. This is true for disabled women and for disabled men. Our organisations in most countries are working hard in difficult circumstances to change this.

It is vital that disabled women are involved in the struggle for social change at every level.


Disabled Women
The social status of disabled women varies according to individual circumstances and to the country in which they live. Disabled women in poor countries usually experience a particular disadvantage. Here, it is not just difficult but often impossible for a disabled woman to get an education or find a job. She easily becomes marginalised; has no place in society. She does not meet the requirements society places on women: she cannot be a "good wife", nor a "good mother", according to common wisdom. She cannot earn her living because of barriers of access and attitude.


Representation and Empowerment
Although the organised disability movement should represent and empower all disabled people, in practice disabled women have fewer opportunities to take part, to take action and to make change. However, disabled women are beginning to organise at national, regional and international levels and disability organisations are increasingly aware of the need to embrace the experiences of all disabled people - whatever their gender, sexuality, ethnic background, age, religion, language or impairment.

Contact with the general women’s movement is not so easy. Interest, when shown, is often at the last minute, when disabled women approach event organisers to ask why there are no disabled speakers and are hurriedly asked to produce one. There is little focus in the women’s movement on disabled women’s issues.


Experience and Responsibility
Many of the things discussed in this resource kit concern disabled women and disabled men. To make sexuality, parenting and abuse "women’s issues" is a mistake. Disabled men can also be victims of abuse and of gender stereotyping. We need to share concern and responsibility with disabled men, and with non-disabled women and men.

We have attempted to collate what evidence there is on both the commonality and difference in experience, though official disability statistics are rarely broken down into gender.


Who Do We Mean by "Disabled Women"?
Disabled women are women who have one or more impairments and experience barriers in society. We include disabled girls and women of all ages, in rural and urban areas, regardless of the severity of the impairment, regardless of sexual preference and regardless of cultural background, or whether they live in the community or an institution.

"Pity can disappear from one day to the next. It makes you dependent on the whims of the person who is dispensing it. The issue of rights and equality is more lasting. It is this that disabled people are increasingly demanding. Charity has too often robbed us of our dignity and our independence. " Khadija.


Status of Disabled Women


General Picture


We have given some indication of the overall status of disabled people. Now we will examine in greater depth how disabled women are particularly affected in various life experiences.

"With the trauma of being abandoned by my mother at an early age, I always had to be reassured by those around me so that I would not feel neglected or rejected. It took me a long time to believe in myself and my abilities." Elisabeth.

"The disability has shaped my personality. I have become more withdrawn and introspective. I usually speak only when I am sure of what is being talked about. I rarely feel comfortable in other people’s company. It does not make for much relaxation if you have to be constantly alert to understand what people around you are discussing." Eunice.


Attitudes: Isolation and Invisibility
Stereotyped and negative attitudes towards disabled people devalue us. Much of the discrimination experienced by disabled women is based on an implicit notion that we are not the same as other women and so cannot be expected to share the same rights and aspirations.


Poverty
"My pension is too low to secure a meal three times a day. I was eating only once a day and, as a result, I fell ill with diabetic gangrene. My pat is freezing and I have no money to live on." Woman from Latvia.

"Parents of a disabled child should be counselled to help them realise that the disability is not a punishment and that they are not to be blamed for it. Those parents who cannot afford to educate or care for their disabled child should be subsidised. When resources are scarce and parents have to make painful choices, they may reject a disabled child. The disabled child may not be seen as the most viable investment." Salome.


Health Care and Rehabilitation


Information
Lack of access to information has serious effects on disabled women’s health, welfare, safety, opportunities and the exercise of their rights.
"A disabled woman should be guaranteed some sort of training to enable her to earn a living because she needs to be more or less self-reliant." Olga.

"I must point out that, the education I received was of paramount importance in my life. It is the foundation for what I am today. A proper education is necessary to put a disabled child on an equal level with non-disabled children." Apoka.

"A disabled woman must acquire a solid education, no matter what the cost. This provides access to intellectual pleasures, which are her rightful claim." Beatrice.


Education and Training
Many disabled people have been prevented from developing their skills because of discrimination in education and training. As with non-disabled women, the situation for disabled women is compounded by the idea that education for women is an unnecessary waste of time and money. So, if education is inaccessible, it doesn’t really matter if the child is female.


Employment
Employment is a critical component in enabling disabled women to support themselves financially and to achieve self-esteem and social recognition.
The waste of human potential that unemployment ensures cannot be justified on the grounds that disabled people are not capable of working or are often absent from work - the opposite is true. High unemployment and limited opportunities are caused by ignorance, prejudice, a reluctance to make even minor changes to support disabled people and discrimination in education and training which means disabled people are less qualified than their peers. Even when disabled people find work, discrimination continues in the lack of promotion and training opportunities.


The Environment
Environmental barriers create disability, limit opportunities and deprive people of their human rights. Lack of environmental adjustments and the absence of accessible buildings hinder disabled women from enjoying freedom of movement around and between different countries and different parts of the built and natural environment.


Transport and Free Movement
Transport for all disabled people is an important key to the exercise of citizenship and participation in society. Women in general, and disabled women in particular, are less mobile than men - less likely to have access to a car; more confined to the home due to social and cultural patterns and to the actual or perceived threat of danger, especially after dark.
No access to transport has serious effects on disabled people’s integration and economic activity. It prevents them forming self-help groups or taking control of their lives. Reasons for not providing accessible transport are generally based on cost and ignorance. For example, a disabled man lost a case of discrimination against Dutch Railways in 1993. The judge said that as the company was providing a public service it should provide it equally to all members of the public. However, since he didn’t believe the man to be part of the public, he couldn’t expect equal treatment.

"It is almost impossible for a blind person to use public transport without a guide or companion. The drivers are undisciplined and commuters compete viciously with each other to grab hold of a door handle or rail. Taxicabs could be easier. However, they are risky because few cab drivers are absolutely trustworthy and a blind passenger could be taken for a long ride to a nearby destination just to add to the taxi meter." Soledad.

"Buildings ignore the existence of disabled persons. During my school years access was a major problem, trying to go from one floor to another in buildings that had no lifts or ramps" Apoka.


Sexuality and Relationships


Family Life and Parenthood
In most countries, girls have a lower status and enjoy fewer of the rights, opportunities and benefits of childhood than boys. Girls and women bear a major share of the burden of poverty. Poor rural women in particular are among the most deprived people in the world. They are generally sicker and more illiterate than men. What is true of women generally is particularly so of disabled women.
We are more than what we look like and more than machines for bearing children. Whether we can or cannot have children makes us no less human, no less female, no less capable of experiencing our sexuality. In addition, disabled people can make good or bad parents - just like anyone else. In many cases, our experience of oppression can make us emotionally stronger, more tolerant, patient and understanding - all ideal qualifications for becoming a parent!

Contrary to commonly held beliefs, although some disabled women may face extra challenges in pregnancy, child rearing and housework, countless disabled women have proved that they can handle them all - using the organisational powers and emotional strength developed by managing their impairments and living in an inaccessible world!


Developments in Genetics
In the field of medical treatment, and in particular genetics, there are many discriminatory attitudes. It may be felt more acceptable for a person’s life to be ended (or for them not to be born) purely because they are disabled.

Prenatal diagnosis - of sex or impairment - aims to avoid the birth of groups of people defined as "inferior". In the case of impairment, selection is exercised in the context of an ideology that says it is morally acceptable to prevent disabled children. Resources are not usually readily available to allow women the "choice" to knowingly give birth to a disabled baby. The latest point at which abortions can normally be performed varies from country to country, but is generally between 22 and 26 weeks; in the United Kingdom and several other countries, abortion of a foetus suspected of having an impairment is legal up to the moment of birth.


"In our society a woman marries into the husband’s family. She is expected to work for the family, i.e. physical work Disabled women are not prime candidates for marriage. I am an unmarried mother and have never come close to marriage. I love being a mother and the responsibility l have for my sons makes my life worthwhile. However, raising two children alone is not an easy task Occasionally, I miss the company of a male partner but I try to push the loneliness away by immersing myself in my job and family." Gloria.

"The most difficult part of my life was my adolescence. Many parents did not want me as their daughter-in-law. They chased their sons away when they saw us together. Or a boyfriend would come simply out of curiosity, without any feeling, and deceive me in the most cruel way because he was ashamed to have me for a wife." Marie-Therese.

"Some men consider a disabled woman an object of embarrassment and they could never think of marrying her. Other men believe that a disabled woman cannot assume full responsibility for the household and for bringing up children." Apoka.

"Now the time has come when society should start accepting disabled women. There are many disabled women who are capable and intelligent but are rejected by society. Why? And just because a woman is disabled, she cannot get married because the man’s parents refuse to accept her as their daughter-in-law. The preposterous reason is that they adhere to the old tradition and give priority to what society would say rather than to their son’s feelings about the woman." Nafisa.

"The day of our wedding was another trial for us. The church was full. Some people came simply out of curiosity. My husband’s sisters cried during the entire ceremony. I cannot really explain why they were crying. Life in our home is still extremely difficult. My husband’s family does not want to accept me. They tell my husband all sorts of stories to create conflict between us." Marie-Therese.

"It is necessary to lift the veil on certain aspects considered taboo or unacceptable for disabled women. Child-bearing has long been considered impossible for a disabled woman. The existing mentality is that the woman is at the centre of the household, doing the work and raising the children. In general, she is like a servant" Yawa.

"Getting appropriate contraception for family planning purposes was not easy for me as a disabled person. The nurses at the clinic had a very negative attitude." Gloria.


Abuse end violence


Female Genital Mutilation
There is growing evidence that wide variations of mutilation are performed on female children in different countries. It is estimated that over 100 million girls and women in more than 28 countries in Africa alone are genitally mutilated. At the current rate of population growth in Africa, two million girls a year - some 6,000 a day - are estimated to be at risk of female genital mutilation (FGM).

However, information available on total prevalence and rates by type of operation is incomplete. It is often based on anecdotal reports or biased samples using unclear or faulty methods of data collection. The only country with reliable nationwide data on FGM is Sudan, where three surveys included data on this group of practices.

Outside Africa, FGM is practised in Oman, north and south Yemen, the United Arab Emirates, Bahrain, Qatar and some areas of Saudi Arabia. Reports from doctors and midwives working in the Middle East indicate that the most severe form, infibulation, is practised widely by immigrants from Sudan and Somalia. However, the extent of the practice in the Middle East is unknown and research data is required to confirm its prevalence and type. FGM is practised by the Ethiopian Jewish Falashas who have recently settled in Israel.

Clitoridectomy is reported to be practised in the developing world by some indigenous people in Peru, Colombia, Mexico and Brazil. Again the extent of the practice is unknown. Excision of the external female genitals is said to be practised by the Muslim populations of Indonesia and Malaysia and by Bohra Muslims in India, Pakistan and east Africa.

In richer countries - Europe, Australia, Canada and the USA - immigrant women from areas where FGM is practised are reported to be genitally mutilated, but there are no studies on its prevalence in immigrant populations nor on the numbers of girls at risk. There is little doubt, however, about the physical and psychological consequences of these practices, which range from mobility difficulties, impaired sexual function and infertility because of infection, to an increased risk of HIV infection.


Multiple Discrimination
Many disabled people face discrimination on the basis of ideas about race, religion, gender, sexuality, marital or parental status, age and language as well as impairment.



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